In my experience, if you treat a cat as "just an animal," that's how he will behave. He will sense that you are not really trying to understand him, and naturally enough, he will give up trying to communicate. The more you engage with him as an equal and try to understand his perspective on the world, the more he will respond to you, and the closer your relationship may become.
Sunday, February 01, 2009
Charles Platt on animal intelligence
Communication with Cats